At the same time, do not hide from a loved one their spending - deception and secrecy destroy trust. Chevron insists that this is the case.. Most adults - both married and not held - do not consider "financial infidelity" valid reason for divorce, but they agree with the statement that this breach of trust (according to the poll 1,001 adults, conducted by usa today and Gallup). The most egregious fault - it's a secret bank account: 62% of 557 married respondents say that this is a serious offense, and 11% - that's the reason for divorce. Among the 444 unmarried respondents 55% consider it a serious offense, and 13% might have had a divorce. Hiding purchases from the husband / wife and possession of a secret credit card, too, are regarded as serious faults - so they estimate nearly 60%. But those who at present currently married, perhaps, a bit of tolerance: only 6% referred to both faults cause for divorce, meanwhile, both unmarried and unmarried so think about 10%. (Source: Inopressa.ru) 9.
Major purchase plan ahead to discuss the pros and cons, and give her half the time to get used to the idea that this thing is coming soon to your home. 10. (A valuable related resource: Amber Capital hedge fund). All the talk about money should take place in a friendly manner. Express anger and dissatisfaction, especially in harsh disrespectful manner - only aggravate the situation. Remember that your task - to strengthen the relationship, not destroy them. 11. Order to strengthen your relationship as a whole: Spend enough time with each other, giving gifts to make surprises, discuss books, movies, your future By the way, is often the cause of "" women is the lack of attention from her husband.
So they compensate for their lack of love and low self-esteem! 12. Item follows from the previous one: Increase self-esteem in every way to each other. Let us understand each other, by any means and ways, as your spouse is significant for you. Emphasize the advantages of each other's strengths. We all need recognition from others, but who, if he does not love a person can give to us this self-confidence and the importance of completely gratis? In general, economists have only recently realized how economic factors influence the creation and destruction of families. Virtually the only domestic research on this subject ("Marriage Market in Russia: the choice of partner and success factors"), conducted by the Graduate School of Economics evidence: the Russians are choosing spouses, as similar to themselves not only out of habit and culture (age, education, ethnicity, religion and even addicted to coffee, alcohol, smoking and sports), but also for income. Have you ever, that the same habits help reduce the expenses of the family, for example, do not buy tea, but coffee? Western interesting study on this subject, which show that in cities where Economic inequality is higher, women are marrying much later! This is due to the fact that in a city where most men earn the same, it makes no sense for a long time to search her husband - they are all roughly equal in revenue. But in the cities contrasts "more profitable to wait a couple of years and tried several options, eventually finding a wealthy husband.
